“我九岁的时候就允许别人跟我做爱了。”——卡尔基·科赫林

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众所周知,Kalki Koechlin将举例说明是女演员以及相信自己思想的人。最近,她承认在9岁时被视为性虐待,并谈到虐待儿童是一个重要的问题,并不锁视它远离视线。她强烈地相信父母在“性别”这个词和私人部分删除禁忌,以便他们的孩子可以公开发言,并从潜在的滥用中拯救。我们在青年融入了赋予妇女权力的强烈相信,并鼓励他们谈论存在的问题,特别是妇女的安全。对于那些困扰我们的社会而不是避免解决它们的问题,我们感到关注这类问题是至关重要的,以便我们为我们尊重和钦佩的女性来确保更好的环境。没有女人应该受到威胁,并继续看着她的肩膀是谨慎的,因为她在晚上被自己散步。让我们让这个世界成为女性更好的地方。你去,kalki!通过孟买的人 - 我谈到我的性虐待的原因是不要让人们为我感到难过,而是给予他人在谈论它的信心的别人。我允许有人在九岁和我发生性关系,并不完全了解它的意思和我最大的恐惧是我母亲会发现的。 I felt it was my mistake and so I kept it hidden for years. If I had had the confidence or awareness to confide in my parents it would have saved me years of complexes about my own sexuality. It’s important that parents remove the taboo around the word sex or private parts so kids can speak openly and be saved from potential abuse. I believe in being myself every step of the way and not hiding my true self from society, whether that means getting a divorce because me and my husband didn’t want to pretend for other people, or wearing shorts because it’s a hot day or choosing a career which is unstable but creatively satisfying, or admitting to my weaknesses because learning from them has led to my strengths. I’ve also been asked a lot about love lately. Well, i just feel love is not up for public display. Love is not the pictures you put up on social media. Love is not a certificate of marriage. Love is not property, children, family or ownership and love is not a barter – ‘I’ll give you this, if you give me that.’ Love is giving without expecting in return. It sounds like the ultimate act of self sacrifice right? But the trouble with giving, and I mean happily and limitlessly giving without expecting in return, is that one has to be self sufficient, and full of love for oneself. So, in a way, I believe love is selfish, because only a person who loves themselves fully, can give fully without expecting, without needing, without dependency. I’m not there yet, but I fight to be myself everyday in a world where we are constantly pressurized to be someone else, and that daily fight is my pursuit for love.

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